I have a question (about pronouns)...
Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:47 pm
But first, a tangent: I would like to thank the community generally and the mods particularly for treating me with empathy and kindness even when I haven't exactly been the Best Forum Poster Ever. I'll try to be more of a positive influence around here.
So what I came here to ask was, well, after I wrote this post in the Trans* Support thread, I thought that it may help me come to terms with my gender issues if I were to list my pronouns here as "she" and its variants. However, since I've consistently ID'd here as a "male with gender confusions", I thought it might cause some confusion/annoyance if suddenly under my username my pronouns where listed differently. I realize that this is a trans*-friendly place and that I've seen no signs saying "womyn-born-womyn only", but I figure it doesn't hurt to ask permission first. It's okay to say no. I have no sense of entitlement about it, I just think it might help me a bit.
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So what I came here to ask was, well, after I wrote this post in the Trans* Support thread, I thought that it may help me come to terms with my gender issues if I were to list my pronouns here as "she" and its variants. However, since I've consistently ID'd here as a "male with gender confusions", I thought it might cause some confusion/annoyance if suddenly under my username my pronouns where listed differently. I realize that this is a trans*-friendly place and that I've seen no signs saying "womyn-born-womyn only", but I figure it doesn't hurt to ask permission first. It's okay to say no. I have no sense of entitlement about it, I just think it might help me a bit.
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